Favorite quote:
“Helen Rowland once said, “A man is like a cat; chase him, and he will run. Sit still and ignore him and he’ll come purring at your feet.”
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“Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together”. ELIZABETH TAYLOR
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Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy The Art of No Contact Book summary in 3 sentences.
Nothing is more powerful or stronger than a woman’s intuition.
Really, love grows fonder with absence.
Recognize that just because Mr. Ex wants to have a sexual relationship with you doesn’t indicate he loves you or even has romantic aspirations for you.
The five key takeaways from Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy The Art of No Contact.
He has already given you closure, so don’t waste any more of your valuable time looking for it.
Don’t allow it to make you feel hurt, insecure, or humiliated. He ought to have approached you first if there was a problem rather than turning to another woman.
Keep in mind that a relationship needs two people to be successful. You must be able to discern whether both sides are hesitant to put forth the required effort. Understand when to set boundaries and release control.
Change to someone who will make it his life’s work to keep you content and happy. Enough self-love to let go. Keep him forever on the ex-list.
Don’t accept an inconsistent connection. It’s unhealthy and will only make your happiness feel like an up-and-down, highs, and lows roller coaster. You deserve better!
Action steps from Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy The Art of No Contact.
Aim to become the most incredible lady you can be. Me, Me, Me, Me, Me, you should say and repeat to yourself.
Being alone doesn’t necessarily imply you are alone, I want you to know with all your heart. It indicates that you are resilient enough to face the challenges life throws at you and patient enough to wait for the right man to enter your life.
Give yourself permission to move on. Keep the past in the past. Just remember to do yourself a favor and avoid letting the failures of previous relationships prevent you from moving on to new relationships.
Don’t take the blame for your own acts, don’t accept responsibility for his misdeeds, and don’t believe you did anything wrong. He is the cause of the issue.
You know what she’s getting—a man who is unfaithful, a liar, and a cheat—so don’t degrade yourself by competing, and don’t be envious.
Under no circumstances attempt to outdo another woman for his affection.
Wait for him to approach you while exercising patience and allowing yourself time to comprehend the pain you just went through.
Accept that you have escaped a dangerous situation and be grateful that you didn’t let him waste any more of your valuable time if he doesn’t stand up for you.
Some men are only unsure of their desires. If this is the case, you should be aware that you are not in his life to address any potential problems. Allow another woman to squander her time. Don’t delude yourself into thinking you can alter him if he is playing you for a fool. He is the only one who has the power to transform his life.
Guys only value things that require effort. You could have noticed that you were being too accommodating and accessible.
Realize that nothing could possibly prevent a man from being with the woman he loves.
Until he goes out of his way to do things for you in order to make you happy and content, stop right away and remain mute.
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